tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15428740124714506882024-03-12T19:58:46.514-07:00Life...one step at a time.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15850598750735595300noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1542874012471450688.post-62329236646097833092014-11-13T21:28:00.002-08:002014-11-14T08:56:25.318-08:00Nine Lives: Part V: The Roller-Coaster Continuum <span style="font-size: large;"><b style="font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace; line-height: 22px;">Strive: </b><span style="font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace; line-height: 22px;">verb. </span><b style="font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace; line-height: 22px;">to contend in opposition, battle, or any conflict; to struggle vigorously, as in opposition or resistance.</b></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">My observation at age 19, was that life was hard. I was trying to get my life on the upswing however, turning life from upside down to right side up can be a lot of work...(especially if you're not even sure which way </span><i style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><u>is</u></i><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"> up). </span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">From wisdom of people much smarter than me, I learned that humans are all moving at different energetic speeds...and that difference of pace, can pave way for a lot of misunderstandings.</span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"> </span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">O</span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">n my crash coarse towards self-discovery and uncovering the perplexities of the ups and downs that life can bring, I </span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">found my world going in for another loop around the roller coaster...and I did not know how to get off the ride.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I had "stolen" a large, canvas painting from my dads house, one that <i><u>I</u></i> had painted. W</span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">ithout permission, and without him knowing, I brought it to my moms a</span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">fter finding it buried in the one place I had asked him NOT to put it. The garage.</span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"> Apparently his new wife at the time didn't want it anywhere inside the house, much less a wall to be hung on. </span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">T</span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">wo weeks later when my dad found it missing and demanded that I return it, I simply told him "no." This put him into a rage fairly quickly and a few minutes later, to my dismay, </span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">told me I was no longer his daughter. </span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"> In my defiance, I said "fine" and w</span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">e hung up the phone.</span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"> I thought I might never speak to him again.</span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"> </span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I knew that my "crime" didn't warrant the punishment I was receiving, but </span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I certainly wasn't going to return my painting either. Not</span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"> knowing how to repair the situation, I did what any normal human would do. Nothing. A year passed...and I never heard from him. </span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Then f</span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">inally, after almost two years of not speaking, I was done with this whole "pretend the other person doesn't exist" thing. I was simply the one who was going to have to make the move. More than that, I wanted to know that if he ever died, at least I had given it my all. </span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">My heart pounded when I drove to his house that day. I thought it might burst right out of my chest. I had so many scenarios playing out in my head I was shaking with fear. What will he do? Will he slam the door in my face? Will he still be so angry with me that he will hurt me? Should I just not do this at all? I thought to myself at least 30 times that I should just turn around and <b>not</b> go through with it...but I kept driving until my car landed in his driveway.</span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">With shaking and sweaty hands, I walked all the way up to his door and knocked...but when the door opened, we were both met with surprise. My dad in shock, just stared at me for what seemed like an eternity--but in reality was only a few seconds. Then, to my astonishment, a smile crept onto his face and he opened his arms and he hugged me.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">We made amends that day...never truly conceding to the other person in our dispute, but simply letting it become water under the bridge. Little did I know that my <i>reason </i>for continuing a relationship with my dad, was well-founded. I wasn't going to be able to have much more time with him. And even though our relationship floated on the surface of substance, a lesson I learned that day was that in the end, we will only ever regret a few things, such as </span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">the chances we didn't take,</span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"> the choices we did or did not take action with,</span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"> and </span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">the decisions that took us too long to carry out. </span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">And although <i>good</i> relationships take an equal amount of effort from both people, you can't expect a great result if you haven't made much of an effort yourself to begin with.</span></span><br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiYDpsKE7ak5hu7lPQu9SPdhsI46_9XxCBJMVhnj3J22bEkQ153wxLb0oxhIMmnjW-aZuleA9wP6k2MDzJ50rX75EDvWl4AI_3MuConwQA_fPqDUpeY7XQzDxEnmgJN4Ul4wQBP_qeERgk/s1600/Screen+Shot+2014-11-13+at+8.48.26+PM.png" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="198" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiYDpsKE7ak5hu7lPQu9SPdhsI46_9XxCBJMVhnj3J22bEkQ153wxLb0oxhIMmnjW-aZuleA9wP6k2MDzJ50rX75EDvWl4AI_3MuConwQA_fPqDUpeY7XQzDxEnmgJN4Ul4wQBP_qeERgk/s200/Screen+Shot+2014-11-13+at+8.48.26+PM.png" width="200" /></a><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I had much still to learn about the magical healing power of perspective...but I <i>had</i> begun to learn about personal choice and effort. There was ample room for me to grow and strive towards becoming a better person. Truth is, I <i>needed</i> to be a better person, because I was over this whole "why does life hurt so much?" experience. The tears were simply becoming too painful. And if I had to struggle and fight the whole way, to fully release love and healing into my life....then....I was in....even if it killed me</span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">. </span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><i><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">And what I would soon learn is that w</span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">hen we strive to become better than we are, everything around us becomes better too.</span></i></span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><i><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span></i></span>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15850598750735595300noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1542874012471450688.post-24090830586524368342014-10-13T16:30:00.000-07:002014-10-13T20:11:24.462-07:00Nine Lives - Part IV: Growing Pains<span style="font-size: large;">After barely making it out of my junior year of high school, I attended three different schools my senior year, the last semester being the foundation I needed to embark on a new journey. I gained some weight back (mostly because I ate at McDonalds everyday trying to win the Monopoly game), made some new friends, joined the swim team and then graduated high school with a 3.75 GPA. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">As almost all of my friends were applying to colleges, I was fairly done with the whole school thing. This isn't to say that I don't <i>highly</i> value education, because I do...and I will talk about that more in later posts. So, with college <i>not</i> on my agenda, high school behind me and a whole world in front of me, I packed my bags and moved to Venezuela.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: large;">Now, if you're wondering why I chose a random country like Venezuela to be my home for my first year out of high school---<b>you</b> would be one of many. Here's the short version: I <i>needed</i> to speak Spanish. And I mean fluently. Over half of my family speaks Spanish--not English... and just because one has Hispanic ethnicity, doesn't mean that you automatically speak Spanish growing up in America. Outside of "buenos dias" "gracias" and the ABC's...I was far from fluent. And while I have hundreds of relatives living in Colombia, at the time, Colombia was considered to be the second most dangerous country to visit...so naturally, I chose Venezuela as the next best place!</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Venezuela was new, thrilling and gorgeous. If you ever desire to effortlessly live in the present moment, go travel somewhere!! Seriously. It invigorates senses you might have not even known exist in you! </span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">Everywhere I went people seemed to be inherently giving and loving...and it began to show me another side to the human existence. When I would come across people who had close to nothing, it seemed as though it was their second nature to give me what little they had. This, I might add, is a very humbling experience...because turning down their gift of love would only offend them. </span><br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi_QLrC7YbxVGei-x5bWaCbFBcLgMKS-e7YdVg6VKbvWRA9RKhyhVo1LahEnr7tvKs9ccpe3aq-DGjDO1fMNxnB5VB8dbQOWSi4KwkRqScMl-mdsZXx0b-LPz-yXZkGu3bPIZH90jQDVXg/s1600/Angel+Falls.png" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi_QLrC7YbxVGei-x5bWaCbFBcLgMKS-e7YdVg6VKbvWRA9RKhyhVo1LahEnr7tvKs9ccpe3aq-DGjDO1fMNxnB5VB8dbQOWSi4KwkRqScMl-mdsZXx0b-LPz-yXZkGu3bPIZH90jQDVXg/s1600/Angel+Falls.png" height="320" width="277" /></a><span style="font-size: large;">I enrolled in a spanish class and began teaching English at an elementary school to make a little money. I travelled all over the country experiencing everything from the sand dunes of Coro, the beautiful mountains of Merida, Angel Falls in the jungles of Canaima, to exquisite beaches with warm, picture perfect Caribbean water; all the while making lifelong friendships that I maintain to this day. Life was definitely looking up...and I was capitalizing on every minute of it.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">After a year of being single, I found myself a new latin boyfriend. I had taken a year off from the dating world--and time did me a lot of good. Dubious at first, I soon found myself in a relationship where I could simply be me. For the first time I experienced that it was possible to be loved <i>and</i> respected. This allowed me the freedom to love with a reckless abandon...become open and vulnerable...all the while discovering new and valuable things about myself. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">We dated for a year and a half--I moved back to the U.S. and it became apparent that neither of us wanted to permanently move to the other persons home country. He thought it best to end our relationship and I found myself again with a broken heart. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Quite often an externally difficult situation will bestow the human spirit the opportunity to grow spiritually beyond oneself. You can triumph out of those experiences, turning life into an inner victory and personal success, or you can ignore the challenge and simply vegetate. I had vegetated intermittently throughout my life and this one wasn't to be the last of them. My heart hurt so bad I thought I might die. However, you don't die when you have a broken heart... </span><span style="font-size: large;">You continue living, breathing and eating...in a state of numbness.</span><span style="font-size: large;"> </span><span style="font-size: large;">The world just seems to keep on turning and you become a silent backdrop to life. Through the process of healing, this numbness <i>can</i> be a mandatory visitor as you make your way back into the land of the living. But I would recommend not to let this particular visitor stay for <i>too</i> long. It does not do one good to wallow in a state of misery and self pity. However that being said, I don't believe</span><span style="font-size: large;"> that you should deny yourself the reality of the situation either. Simply remember that you ALWAYS have a choice. A choice to live. A choice to forgive. A choice to let go. A choice to be grateful for the plethora of miracles that constantly emit light and love. </span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">If nothing more, keep in mind what the great German philosopher Nietzsche said, (also made popular by the talented Kelly Clarkson): "Was mich nicht umbringt, macht mich stärker." What doesn't kill you makes you stronger.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">My cousin sent this picture to me yesterday and I thought it was perfectly symbolic for the subject of this post. Yes, it is a picture of poop with a morning glory rising out of it....the incredible reminder that out of the muck and mire rises glory and beauty. </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">I was nineteen. The world was filled with pits of despair, cliffs of insanity, peaceful meadows, blissful mountain views and an ever blossoming perspective. What's more is as I gained perspective, I began to see that all of my stumbling was simply part of the intricate dance of life... </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">High - School. Interesting name really. My experience was hardly "elevated" or "uplifted" and even though I got decent grades, </span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">my</span><i style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: x-large;"> </i><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">classes</span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;"> didn't instruct me on <i>how</i> to deal with life--or hurting, angry adults…much less insecure peers. </span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">I did my best trying to figure things out…wobbling and stumbling most of the way. </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">P</span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">eople found entertaining ways to spread rumors about me...not that it was very difficult when my whole life seemed to be a public exhibit. Anyone who knew me in school could probably recall a time or two where something in my life was whisper-worthy. </span><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Yes, I was one of <i>those</i> people. The ones who you see crying, sitting in the middle of the school parking lot and think, "I wonder what their problem is? They are probably trying to get attention or </span></span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">something…" And that wouldn't be too far from the truth. I was dealing with more problems then I knew how to handle and I was looking for someone, anyone to hold my hand through it with me...</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><i>Soooo</i> I began dating. What a great idea! Not that I consciously thought of it that way--but that's just what happened. Even when my mom told me I shouldn't, and my dad absolutely forbade it, (and would have killed me if he had known...) I jumped right in -- with my whole heart. And with my fairly unhealthy view of the male species, at sixteen, I ended up finding myself involved in a toxic, disastrous relationship. It was so much of a whirlwind, I didn't know which way was up and which way was down. My mom had gotten remarried, so she was fairly distracted when it came to noticing anything different about me. And if you were wondering where my dad was in all of this -- read Part II: The Readers Digest... </span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">The relationship I was in went from fun and happy to a tears and confusion all too quickly. </span></span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">I felt used, misled, broken hearted, and lost. "Coping" would hardly describe my state of <i>being</i>---I was in full blown survival mode. </span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">What is this love thing anyway? Is it supposed to hurt this much? What am I doing to cause all of this? Can't things just run smoothly for once?!</span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;"> Won't somebody please </span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">just</span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;"> love me?!</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Then, s</span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">omewhere near my seventeenth year of life, m</span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">y mom found herself getting another divorce and</span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;"> I found myself pregnant.</span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;"> </span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">I was scared to death to tell anyone. Finally I managed up the courage to tell my mom. She didn't know what to do with-- or make of her troubled daughter. And I didn't blame her. I was sick, and felt like a complete disaster of a person. I had lost my appetite for food and life, and </span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">didn't care </span><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><i>who</i></span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"> thought </span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><i>what</i></span></span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;"> of me.</span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;"> Then, about a month or so later, I had a </span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">miscarriage. My mom couldn't have been more relieved--and deep down, past the heart ache...so was I. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">W</span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">eighing in at only a hundred pounds--I looked gauntly. </span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">I was h</span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">alf way through my senior year when I decided to move to a new school and come face to face with a major change yet again. What I hadn't realized yet was that <i>change</i> is the only constant thing <i>in</i> life. It paves the way for good to rise out of the bad. Change allows for us to learn from our mistakes and make new choices, as it also shapes our perspective. It was Viktor Frankl who said that, "<i>when we are no longer able to change the situation, we are challenged to change ourselves….the last of human freedoms--to choose one's attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one's own way."</i> A</span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">lthough I wasn't clear yet on how my choice would pan out,</span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;"> </span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">I was just beginning to discover that life <i>is</i> what you make it. A future was sitting right in front of me, and it was inevitable that I was moving forward. I had taken a step, my first step towards creating anew my destiny.</span><br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15850598750735595300noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1542874012471450688.post-91169753742419155902013-10-02T16:54:00.000-07:002013-10-29T16:32:44.536-07:00Nine Lives - Part II: The Readers Digest<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Let me tell you plainly that I was a happy child. Imagination was my good friend, and it ran free like wild horses. We lived in the mountains on an acre property with blue skies, trees and fresh air. It was wonderful. I would run around </span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">barefoot</span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;"> pretending to be a Native American and stay outside for hours playing by myself or with my little sister. When I was indoors, I would entertain myself in various ways through drawing, singing or putting on plays for anyone who would watch, including Barbie and Ken, I might add. </span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;"> </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">My mom was an excellent mother and she always had our best interests in mind. </span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">My dad worked in L.A. and was gone most of the week, so during weekdays, things were pretty carefree around the house. </span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">He was very particular about things and enforced many rules at home that <i>everyone</i> was to abide by, including my mother. Unlike the average American family, we </span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">weren't allowed to watch TV or listen to popular music. It was out of the question to ever eat something like a</span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;"> donut or bacon. Spending the night at a friends house was O-U-T,</span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;"> and we could never leave toys out of our rooms or they would be thrown away. So when he came home from work, we made sure that everything was as perfect as possible. None of us wanted to upset him.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">In third grade I was taken out of public school and my sister and I began homeschooling. This was a huge adjustment for me initially, but I adapted and although I missed my friends, I developed a huge passion for learning. </span><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">On weekends, fights were frequent between my parents. During the bad ones, I would take my sister into the back of the house, </span></span><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">huddle in the corner with her and ask God to stop the fighting. </span></span><br />
<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjpNZDH76L7CjYBPKbtBoquWdlbBHM-vxHLMc-bEqsy5fI06zjUMfk-n5H2g8AuSnGceMlbloQ9FrKQ-WUszTD9gE94Z69rc0jCHaV59QHlsnPfiOyFoLtBZU5JUnZVpeiQlFFm3JAN-LA/s1600/IMG_0665.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjpNZDH76L7CjYBPKbtBoquWdlbBHM-vxHLMc-bEqsy5fI06zjUMfk-n5H2g8AuSnGceMlbloQ9FrKQ-WUszTD9gE94Z69rc0jCHaV59QHlsnPfiOyFoLtBZU5JUnZVpeiQlFFm3JAN-LA/s320/IMG_0665.jpg" width="239" /></a><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Then one day, when I was twelve and my sister was seven, m</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">y mom had simply had enough. I remember the morning she came in told us we were leaving as she packed our clothes. I started to cry and all I could think of was "What if daddy catches us? We will all be in big trouble." My mom knew this. She was scared too. Before I knew it, </span><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">my parents were getting a divorce. I felt like the floor had been removed from underneath me, and there was nothing I could do to stop it. M</span></span><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">y sister and I went from having almost no contact with the outside world, to being thrust into a new school, in a busy new town, with two parents who were hurt and very angry with each other.</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span></span><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Adolescence </span></span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">is already hard enough for a "normal" person and I was a seventh grader who didn't know what any "popular" <i>anything</i> was. My first year interacting with peers was filled with embarrassing moments. </span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">I quickly began to learn about hard knocks, the pain of gossip and what it meant to "fit in." </span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">School however, was the least of my problems. </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">As with many divorces, my life was split between parents half and half. On my dad's time I wasn't allowed to participate in sports or after school programs as he saw no use for them. Most coaches were not happy or understanding about having a player who showed up only fifty percent of the time. </span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Besides being strict, he</span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;"> was exceptionally protective. </span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">On good days, we were usually kept locked indoors in the same room with him while he read The Readers Digest or the Bible, or we stayed locked outside in the backyard to do yard work. </span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">My sister and I did our best to be good daughters, and we didn't complain for fear of the consequences.</span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;"> </span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Breakfast was my favorite time of the day with him because we would just sit there quietly, sipping coffee. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">With my mom no longer around to protect us from my dads temper tantrums, I did my best to s</span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">helter my sister from the brunt of it.</span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;"> My dad was angry that my mom had left him, and on the bad days, I spent countless hours fighting, crying, and being made to memorize letters that he had written for my mom. He wanted her to know what a terrible person she was for leaving him and h</span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">e felt she would <i>hear</i> it better if it was coming from me. We "practiced" for hours each week. Of course when I went back to my moms I didn't have the heart to tell her all the things he wanted me to. </span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">It was hard enough hearing her sobs through the bedroom door on a regular basis.</span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;"> </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">By age fifteen, </span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I was running away from home. Literally. Running. The first time, I sprinted as fast as I could to my nearest friend about a mile away.</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;"> </span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">My heart might have exploded right out of my chest, had she not been home. </span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Soon after I began to slit my wrists with sharp objects. Then, with plenty of prescription drugs in the medicine cabinet it all seemed so easy really. I thought I would just pop a handful of Codine and drift off to sleep. </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">I don't remember much of that evening, but I know that school counselors almost rushed me to the emergency room when my dad intercepted, and against everyone's better judgement, decided to take me home and pray for me. The prayers must have been pretty strong that evening because I made it through the night. </span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">With the amount of pills I had in me, it is a miracle that I lived through it. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">It is said that "A gem cannot be polished without much friction, nor man perfected without trials." This I know to be true. My early teen years had been nothing <i>but</i> friction, yet for a reason unbeknownst to me, I had been given another chance. I would soon learn that trials are a blessing in disguise and </span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">each day is a fresh start, filled with choices to be made. At sixteen I had been given a new opportunity for choosing life and there were many more lessons yet to learn... </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I have been asked many times why I am so happy all the time. Most people follow up that thought with "she must of had a pretty easy and wonderful life." Self confidence, I'm told, "oozes" out of me. </span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Well folks, I'm here to tell you that I traveled down the long road to self confidence. </span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">My life has been a story of challenges, many mistakes and learning the "hard way." </span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I've been poor--not knowing where my next meal would come from, a millionaire, crazy, sane, depressed, passionate, </span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">married, divorced, </span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">suicidal and inspired by life. In a very real sense, I have lived nine lives. </span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Life for me has been anything </span><i style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">but</i><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"> "easy" --that is until I discovered <i>how</i> to create a life that </span><i style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">is</i><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"> truly wonderful. How did I solve this conundrum you ask? A</span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">s I'm sure you know, perspective is everything, so before I tell you how I discovered self love, acceptance and forgiveness, I will tell you a more personal story by rewinding briefly back to my childhood, where I initially discovered tears, self doubt, and fear. </span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">The insecurity of not being good enough, would fester through my teens and into early adulthood. </span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Of course, pleasing everybody is impossible, and t</span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">rying to do so, put me on a </span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">collision course with pain and disappointment.</span><br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15850598750735595300noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1542874012471450688.post-77845314087972416602013-09-10T14:07:00.003-07:002013-09-11T10:27:40.537-07:00The Road-Less Battle<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgnF7JF9bwGfaa93rpyjHHxWhuaMHu-DcPafiJ7Y_9T55FydLvDJZnFdf3JAwxi3ojaXtrbGemU0y7PJUNNvzO4ajmSBC65RNc15a0XTlCifDCtL_0PSZ4QYWTCt4aX7dNR-PcQktk9FrI/s1600/photo.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><span style="font-size: large;"><img border="0" height="239" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgnF7JF9bwGfaa93rpyjHHxWhuaMHu-DcPafiJ7Y_9T55FydLvDJZnFdf3JAwxi3ojaXtrbGemU0y7PJUNNvzO4ajmSBC65RNc15a0XTlCifDCtL_0PSZ4QYWTCt4aX7dNR-PcQktk9FrI/s320/photo.JPG" width="320" /></span></a><span style="font-size: large;">Is it really morning? Wow, that seemed fast. My eyes ache as I force them open. The clock says 6:35 a.m. </span><span style="font-size: large;">I'm exhausted and I don't FEEL like getting up. </span><span style="font-size: large;">I would love to just let my eyes rest for another...hour... or two. </span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">Then the self talk begins. "But...you love waking up early" and "What about your commitment to go running every morning before breakfast?" </span><span style="font-size: large;">Mmmmm. Breakfast. My stomach starts to growl.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">Great.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">The battle of 'will vs. body' has begun. The wisdom of the ages starts echoing in my ears. "First we make choices. Then our choices make us." How many times have I let my body "win" as an excuse because I was "too tired, too hungry, too busy etc?"</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">Not today sister. Today is a NEW day. A fresh start. Each decision that comes my way is my choice. Last month I succeeded in getting up early everyday. I nourished my body with clean, healthy foods. I have health goals to become the best me possible... And now, because my eyes hurt I am going to allow a little tiredness to break the streak?</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">Just then my body pipes up again and whimpers "but think about it Leanna...you <i>need</i> your rest and it's so comfortable in here...and you've been running around all week at the inaugural Utah Comicon. You had a 13 hour drive back to LA yesterday!! You deserve it." </span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">Agh! Hush!!</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">"My will is stronger than my body. My will is stronger than my body. My will is stronger than my body!" I repeat out loud. Man, if someone was watching this self talk, they might just think I was crazy! </span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">Maybe I am crazy.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">I remind myself of the greater goal that I am working towards. What am I choosing? Weakness or greatness? Greatness does not care whether I am tired, hungry, male or female, what race I am, what religion I claim, or if I ever achieve it for that matter. The ONLY thing that matters right now is having the faith that it will happen, and the commitment of following through. Even when the <i>feeling </i>that I initially had when I made the commitment is gone...(and let me tell you, at this very moment.... it's gone!)</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">My inner, deeper, and higher thought continues...Be willing to be uncomfortable, and the payoff is greater than the price paid up front. I glance at my phone and the quote of the day is from Blaise Pascal which says "Mans greatness lies in the power of his thought."</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">OKAY! I AM COMMITTED!! Go figure that would be the quote of the day! Thanks Blaise. :)</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">And with that my legs swing out of bed. I did it. I put on my tennies and put my hair in a pony tail. I step outside and breathe in the fresh, morning air.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">It's invigorating.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">To achieve greatness, one must push through. Never quit. Or... like Dori from Finding Nemo puts it-- "just keep swimming...just keep swimming..." I place one foot in front of the other and am reminded again that if it is meant to be, it's up to me and my committed action.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">Bring it on world cause here I come!</span>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15850598750735595300noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1542874012471450688.post-64339648660335017132013-04-23T10:36:00.000-07:002013-04-24T20:44:44.574-07:00Practice Makes Perfect?<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhPw-zahAtzRxEuWnoC1QaJ_w8KXpaTSfWFEOVSt7jhBWhX25EXYKPxphSTc2-MO_-Jbpghf7ej1G0T1vUOY7U0v1cw6l4q6n9ImbE_xUIbpXKu66y_kdXOv8VcRwyuVfqXYqQ0kzK54Jk/s1600/photo.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: large;"><img border="0" height="298" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhPw-zahAtzRxEuWnoC1QaJ_w8KXpaTSfWFEOVSt7jhBWhX25EXYKPxphSTc2-MO_-Jbpghf7ej1G0T1vUOY7U0v1cw6l4q6n9ImbE_xUIbpXKu66y_kdXOv8VcRwyuVfqXYqQ0kzK54Jk/s400/photo.JPG" width="400" /></span></a><span style="font-size: large;">It's been a while, I know. Life is an ever flow of events and I sometimes find myself caught up in the excitement of it all. Needless to say, (by the lack of my posts) blogging has been about the last thing on my mind lately. Imagine my surprise then, as I was in the middle of enjoying my breakfast, an interesting thought popped into my brain, and my laptop chirped at me simultaneously, as if telling me I had to blog about it. So here I am--about to reveal some of the ever flowing thoughts that rattle around in my brain!</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">The question of the morning is: If practice makes perfect, or at the very least makes one better, does this apply to everything we do? Let's see, what are some of the "practices" we as humans do on a regular basis? Hmmm. Breathing, eating, sleeping, thinking, talking...? These activities maybe aren't viewed as "practice" because it has nothing to do with playing a sport or musical instrument, but, isn't anything we do regularly a form of practice?</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">The questions begin to snowball...</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">If thinking is practicing, what reoccuring thoughts are happening in my brain? Am I thinking positively or negatively? </span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">My heartbeat picks up pace as if I were a convict getting ready to be sentenced. Oh, I know I have lots of thoughts that are happy, upbeat and filled with life, but what about those negative, pesky and downright ugly thoughts like, not being in better shape or not having enough money? When those thoughts occur more than ONE time, (and I definitely plead guilty on this) --then it<i> is</i> ultimately something that I am practicing.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">What am I talking most about? Lack? Or Abundance? Am I talking about how happy and grateful I am to have water and food to eat daily? Over 75% of the world does NOT have that privilege. </span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">Or am I talking about what I don't have, repeating a negative story I heard on the news, or gossping? Am I living in <i>love</i> or in <i>fear</i>? Which one am I ultimately practicing more and getting stronger at?</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">I find all of these questions to be very sobering, if I take a good honest look at myself. Am I subject to having these thoughts control my life? Hell no!</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span><span style="font-size: large;">The good news is, I remind myself, we have a choice in the matter. Always. A choice to become aware of what is happening in our brains, and to actively replace bad thoughts with good ones. Comforting isn't it? Kind of like this hot cup of joe. </span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">The more we practice awareness, the stronger we will become. And the stronger we become, the closer we are to that gold medal of abundance. That my friend, is something amazing to think about!</span><br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15850598750735595300noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1542874012471450688.post-65005346464377985132012-12-15T16:59:00.000-08:002012-12-17T15:21:06.003-08:00A Prayer of Healing<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="line-height: 22px;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">My heart is deeply sorrowful.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">For the weeping mothers. The heartbroken fathers.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">The pain and anger that is sweeping across a country. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Another day that the world has been forced to face tragedy.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Again, I ask myself, </span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">"Why the little children? Why the innocent?"</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">As tears stream down my face, my afflicted heart hears only one answer. </span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">An answer in the form of another question:</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">"What can I do to to bring healing to hearts that are broken? Hearts that are lost? Hearts that have been hardened, and now seem to hold no value for life?" </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Is it even possible? My soul is met with a confirmation that it is. If <i>one</i> person can affect so many in a heartless and despicable way, what could <i>many</i> hearts do if united in spreading love and healing?</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Being fearful paralyzes the mind. It is the opposite of love.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">The truth is, as hard as it may be to forgive -- not doing so empowers the hate, and staying angry stimulates the poison that has already contaminated too many. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Today is a new day. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">A day that you and I have a beating heart, breath, life. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">A light, with the ability to shine in the darkness. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">A power to spread love. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">This is my desire. and my commitment: </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">To unite and create a circle of love that spreads further than my hands alone can reach. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">A prayer that is shared, filled with healing and forgiveness, touching more than my eyes can see. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Please join me in spreading this love. There is great power in many hearts united.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">"Desire is the starting point of all achievement, not a hope, not a wish, but a keen pulsating desire which transcends everything."</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">TODAY IS A NEW DAY. A MIRACLE WITHIN ITSELF. A GIFT.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">LIFE IN WHICH I HAVE THE ABILITY TO LOVE MERELY BY SPEAKING IT INTO EXISTENCE.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">WITH THIS POWER, I HUMBLY ASK THAT HEALING WOULD TOUCH ALL THOSE WHO ARE HURTING THIS DAY.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">BY PLANTING FAITH AND HOPE WHERE THERE GROWS DOUBT AND DESPAIR.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">MAY THIS BE A SPARK THAT IGNITES FORGIVENESS; </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">FOR IN THIS LOVE LIES THE POWER THAT CAN HEAL ALL WOUNDS.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">LET ME BE AN INSTRUMENT OF PEACE AS I LIVE THIS DAY.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">MAY WE COME TOGETHER AS ONE WITH LOVE AND BE A GREATER FORCE, DEFEATING HATRED AND HARDENED HEARTS.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">FOR IT IS WITHIN THE SMALLEST GESTURE, THAT LOVE CAN BE FELT,</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">AND EVEN GREATER STILL, LOVE HAS NO BOUNDARIES.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">WITH THIS KNOWLEDGE, LET US MOVE FORWARD, AND CREATE A FORCE OF LOVE THE WORLD HAS NEVER SEEN.</span></div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15850598750735595300noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1542874012471450688.post-25885098763238708252012-10-21T15:15:00.001-07:002012-10-22T21:27:28.767-07:00Test of Faith<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif; font-size: large;">Why hasn't anyone called yet? He had his collar on him! Is someone trying to steal him?</span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif; font-size: large;"><span style="text-align: left;">I refocus and look at the clock. </span><span style="text-align: left;">It's twenty minutes until my train leaves, and Amtrak is a punctual beast. </span><span style="text-align: left;">I grab my backpack and hurry out of the house.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif; font-size: large;"><span style="text-align: left;">Faith has been</span><span style="text-align: left;"> playing a <i>good</i> game of hide and seek with me for the last seven days...Faith being the one doing the hiding. And shortly after I hunt <i>Faith</i> down and find her, she seems to want to play the game all over again.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: large; text-align: left;">I run up four flights of stairs at the train station, and barely make it on board. Talk about a great way to get your heart pumping in the morning! </span><span class="huge" style="border: 0px; font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: large; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: left;">I take a seat and look out the window. A spectacular sunrise greets me and reminds me that today is a new day, a blessing, a gift. It seems to point out that each </span><span class="huge" style="border: 0px; font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: large; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: left;">day presents itself with two different handles to clutch on to. We can either grab the handle of anxiety or hold on to the handle of faith.</span><span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: large; text-align: left;"> </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif; font-size: large;"><span class="huge" style="border: 0px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: left;">I open my iphone and read a few notes I jotted down this past week by </span><span style="text-align: left;">Saint Augustine, Gandi and </span><span style="line-height: 22px;">Khalil Gibran</span><span style="text-align: left;">. </span></span><br />
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<li><span style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif; font-size: large;">"Faith is to believe what you do not see; the reward of this faith is to see what you </span></span><span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;"><i style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: large;">believe</span></i><i style="font-size: x-large; text-align: left;">.</i><span style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: large;">"</span><i>-</i></span></span><span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif; text-align: left;"><i>Saint Augustine</i></span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-size: large; text-align: left;">"</span><span style="line-height: 22px;"><span style="font-size: large;">If patience is worth anything, it must endure to the end of time and a living faith will last in the midst of the blackest storm." </span><i>-Mahatma </i></span></span><span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif; text-align: left;"><i>Gandi</i></span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-size: large; line-height: 22px;">"</span><span class="huge" style="border: 0px; font-size: large; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: left;"><span style="line-height: 22px; text-align: -webkit-auto;">Your living is determined not so much by what life brings to you as by the attitude you bring to life; not so much by what happens to you as by the way your <i>mind looks at </i>what happens.</span>"</span><span style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: large;"> </span>-</span></span><span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif; line-height: 22px;">Khalil Gibran</span></li>
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<span style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif; font-size: large;">How comforting it is to know that in moments when I don't have the inspiration or strength, I can always find someone who does.</span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif; font-size: large;"><span style="text-align: left;">I breathe in deeply and am comforted. </span>When we let faith shape our lives, worry has no stronghold. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="text-align: left;">It's an understatement for me to say that I do not like that my favorite pooch is missing. Emotions have run deep in me this week. And, after printing and posting fliers, putting adds on Craigslist, and searching through suburbia, fields and ditches, the only thing I can do now is to choose <i>faith</i>. </span><span style="text-align: left;">I am in charge of my attitude. A Greater Power is in charge of the rest. </span></span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif; font-size: large;"><span style="text-align: left;">Although my prayers of finding this special dog are still strong, I have felt a shift happen as I re-discover my faith and find my "attitude of gratitude." </span><span style="text-align: left;">I am reminded of the many beautiful gifts I <i>have</i> been given in life (even two years of love and joy with a wonderful pup). A </span><span style="text-align: left;">change is in motion. From a focus on what I temporarily do not possess, my prayers are now directed towards being responsible of living a life </span><i style="text-align: left;">worthy</i><span style="text-align: left;"> of that which I already have. </span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica;">Sluggish mornings are almost a guarantee after not sleeping well the night before. </span><span style="font-family: Helvetica;">I drag myself downstairs to make breakfast and start my day off with some reading. I have this strong feeling that today should be spent in prayer, study and meditation.</span><span style="font-family: Helvetica;"> Hmm. Okay. Well, I have a lot to do today, so let's get this party started. </span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">I wake up my Nook. I envy how it can wake up so easily with just the swipe of a button.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">The Power of Intention, by Wayne Dyer pops on the screen where I had left off yesterday. I drink each word </span><span style="font-size: large;">in slowly</span><span style="font-size: large;">.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">I take out my Life Journal--a book where I keep thoughts and notes that I have come across over the years. Its leathery smell fills the air as I open it, and I read what I have written on the cover page: </span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><b>"A journey of a thousand miles, begins with a single step."</b></span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">Pondering this beautiful quote, I flip to a blank page and begin to take a few notes. As I jot away tidbits that I feel apply to my life right now, all of a sudden, my Nook starts "acting up" and on its own, decides to flip to the previous page. I grab it disapprovingly, turning back to the page where I was before, and set it back down on the table to finish my note taking.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">Then, without warning, it does it again. What in the world is going on here?! It's still to early for problems! My Nook is obviously not listening. </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Then a third time it revolts-- but this time, almost audibly says,</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">"Leanna! You are missing something on the previous page!" </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">I stare blankly in my frustration and then say out LOUD to my empty dining room, "Okay already--I can take a hint! Let me at least finish what I'm writing and then I'll go back and reread that page!" </span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">Then nothing.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">I take my time finishing my notes, just to see if it will turn back on its own a <i>fourth</i> time...but the Universe had heard me, and so it patiently waited for me to manually turn back on my own.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">I finally turn the page and as I begin to reread it, the word INTENT really sticks out to me. A word I'm familiar with, but at this moment, feel the need to look up its definition.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">-something that is intended; purpose; design</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica;">The next sentence that catches my attention on the page is that "in mathematics, two angles that are said to coincide, fit together perfectly. The word </span><b style="font-family: Helvetica;">coincidence </b><span style="font-family: Helvetica;">then does not describe luck or mistakes. It describes that which fits together perfectly." As I ponder this thought, my Nook then does something else on its own. It highlights a particular part of a sentence on the page! Tentatively, I begin to read what I had completely overlooked the first time! (I have underlined the part that was highlighted.) </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">"When life appears to be working against you, when your luck is down, when supposedly the wrong people show up, <u style="font-weight: bold;">or when you slip up and return to old, self defeating habits</u>, recognize the signs that you're out of harmony with intention." </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Whoa. </span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">I read on. The next paragraph stuns me even more. The same scriptural verse that I read the night prior Mark 11:24, just so happened to be the next paragraph that was in the book! My eyes fill with water in unbelief. I flip back open my Life Journal to write this down and as I do, I find there is only one thing written on the top of the page--that I had written there months ago. The SAME exact verse!!</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">"AND ALL THINGS, WHATSOEVER YOU SHALL ASK IN PRAYER, <b>BELIEVING, </b>YOU SHALL RECEIVE."</span><br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15850598750735595300noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1542874012471450688.post-56507552053207385272012-06-18T11:37:00.000-07:002012-06-18T20:34:22.495-07:00Puppy Love<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">I stare deeply into the golden brown eyes that are inches away from my face. Nothing else exists in this exact moment. Just the two of us. He looks at me as if he is just about to tell me how much he loves me, but instead lowers his face onto my shoulder as I wrap my arms around him. Our relationship is the epitome of affection and appreciation--living proof that unconditional love and joy can exist in a relationship between two living beings. No expectations. </span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">I release our embrace and see that he is now grinning from ear to ear. It's infectious. I smile back. It's as if I just gave him the world by fully receiving his gift, his tail begins to wag so vigorously that he practically knocks himself over.</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">The embodiment of friendship, dogs are possibly one of the purest examples of what it means to LIVE and LOVE unconditionally. As I sit on the floor and watch my furry friend get distracted by an approaching Rottweiler, I think to myself, "What if we only greeted those we love with that much enthusiasm?" and "What could this world look like if we showed with all our might how much we care about others, simply by living in the moment?"</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">Trust. Acceptance. Passion.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">These canine qualities are only a few of the examples worth pondering and ultimately aspiring to. Imagine the reactions we might receive if we lived by the rules of our four legged friends! </span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">Would it be possible to receive the same kind of response that they illicit from us? </span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">They TRUST that we love them, and love us back, just as much or more, even when we don't pay them as much attention as we could. They ACCEPT every inch of our short comings, by choosing to focus on our positive qualities. </span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">With PASSION, they fully engage themselves on even the smallest events such as smelling the fresh air, taking naps, jumping on the chance to have fun, and always taking the opportunity to greet total strangers with a playful attitude and a giant smile.</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">The two dogs, nose to nose, let out little whines in their excitement. Then just like that, they part ways and this lovable pooch comes running back to me. </span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">Could we let Fido (or in my case Butters) be our guide--and let go of our reservations to love others boldly, forgive wrongs almost instantly, always seek to learn something new and find the best in everything? </span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">CLEAN-THE-HOUSE. What an intimidating sentence! Hearing those three little words put together can, at times, be comparable to nails on a chalkboard. (Or a fork scratching on a plate in my case.) Geaaah! Completely un-fun...especially when it's your own mess. And talk about redundant. You know the drill. Do the dishes. Do the laundry. Scrub the bathrooms. Sweep and mop the floor. Dust the furniture...the list goes on and on.</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">Oh....and never forget the annual "spring cleaning" that happens only for the truly dedicated. Then finally you emerge victorious. It's clean. It's organized. You know where everything is! And just as you begin to bask in the glory of completion, settling into the organized and clean space of <b><i>zen </i></b>---it gets dirty and messy.... again. Why can't things just stay clean? I lift my eyes to the sky, in a moment of self pity, and ask myself in the most compassionate and loving way possible....why me? </span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">On a mission to cleanliness, somewhere in mid sweep, my mind finds ways to entertain itself. Deeper thinking sets in, as I contemplate how parallel maintaining a clean and healthy home is to maintaining a clean and healthy Self. Questions like "What keeps my mind and spirit regularly activated and uplifted?" and "What results can I achieve with daily dedication and persistence?" </span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">Kelly Clarkson blasts in the background "What doesn't kill you makes you stronger" as I vigorously vacuum the pet fur off the entry rug. Oh yea. I'm motivated now! My heart rate surges and I start to break a sweat. I start a mental list of some of the "to do's" for living enlightened and invigorated. Hmmm...let's see...we have eating healthy, exercising, stretching, taking time for daily prayer and meditation, reading, attending a good self development seminar once a year...and if that's not enough there's always things that <i><b>really</b></i> matter like making time for family, working, and keeping a moderate social life! Also, don't forget to smell the flowers...(which just so happens to be something I deeply enjoy.) </span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">First off, I thoroughly enjoy living in a clean environment. I love the way it makes me feel; I know I think better when the space around me is in harmony with itself. Not to mention, getting up close and personal with the stuff I have accumulated over the years, tends to give me a good reality check on all that I have been blessed with--and there is <b>much</b> to be grateful for.</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">I scrub harder on the stainless steel pan I used earlier for breakfast. Why do they make cookware out of this material again?? Food always sticks to it! I stop myself mid thought and remember that at least I have a pan to cook in. </span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">I'm back on track...but I wouldn't say I get excited about doing dishes, laundry, sorting mail, and spending several hours of my day tidying up every week, to keep it looking top-notch...I just love the way it <i>feels</i> when everything looks its best! Yes, it may seem daunting, to look at ALL there is to do, in order to experience the <i>sparkle--</i>but that only happens when<i> </i>we procrastinate on our daily, routine maintenance. </span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">Like our home, when we focus on the desired end result, daily self-maintenance is the pathway to living each day rejuvenated, filled with clarity, and peace of mind. </span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">The truth is, regular upkeep is a part of life. And I've found the best way to handle anything, is to first accept it, then create a way to make it work, and ultimately find the joy in the process. It is always good to remember, if it's meant to be, it's up to me and my committed action.</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">While having a clean home can bring inner peace and a sense of accomplishment, my thoughts lead me to a more meaningful inquiry. What kind of euphoria would we experience daily, if we faithfully polished ourselves and insisted on excellence? Just think of ALL the possibilities!</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">Should I get up? No. Its still too early. Can I fall back asleep? I'd sure like to. I hear the birds beginning to faintly chirp through my open window. More thoughts stream in like a runaway freight train. Disagreements. Misunderstandings. Lack of communication. They are so far in the past and all seem so petty now, but at the time they acted as a propane tank to a flame, igniting stubbornness, resentment and sometimes even the death of a friendship. What could I have done to prevent certain things from going bad? Was that something within my power as a human being to change? I feel sad that they are no longer a part of my life. I wonder how life is treating them. Are they happy? Do they have their own families yet?</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">Agh! Okay. I need some inspiration. I open my iPhone to Dr. Wayne Dyer. The first thing that pops up is "Be thankful for everyone." Wow. Coincidence? I think not! I read on... "Every single person who's drifted in and out of your life is a part of your Divinely chosen experience....give thanks for all these people, and take a serious note of what they brought you." Thank you Wayne! What a great reminder! I feel a burst of joy as the cool morning air breathes on my face. What great lessons I have learned from making mistakes, and saying or doing the wrong thing!! How much better can my relationships be NOW that I have become conscious to my choices and actions that follows them, in this human experience? Now I'm awake. Theres no stopping it. It's 5:45 a.m. and excitement for life is rushing through my veins. The world is waking up on this side of the sphere. I can hear nature bustling as I close my phone and jump out of bed. I have a new day in front of me. New challenges to overcome! Relationships to nurture! Dreams to fulfill! But first things first....a soothing, hot cup of goodness. :)</span>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15850598750735595300noreply@blogger.com12